2022.01.26 03:03 flowerfroggie_ Did My Cousin Have the Hots for Me??
About four years ago, my cousin (who was 35 at the time, M), and I (who was 21 at the time, F) met for the first time. I grew up in a large Filipino family with lots of cousins and second cousins - many of whom I did not meet until I was much older. I was spending Thanksgiving with my Aunt in North Carolina around this time and she has a son who lives in Minnesota - the cousin in question. I was told he would be spending Thanksgiving with our family in North Carolina because he was going through a divorce. This was pretty much our first time meeting in person. He ended up opening up to me very quickly about the details of his divorce and the intense emotions he was feeling. We would stay up late talking about it and he would ask me for advice, almost treating me like a therapist, which felt strange considering our large age gap and the fact that I had never even been in a relationship when I was 21. I assumed he was probably just really going through it and I happened to be there for him to talk to; however, this continued. We kept in touch over social media and texting. Sometimes, he would text me late in the evenings asking for prayer or wanting to talk, and I, again, was put in a position where he asked for advice and would unload a lot. I tried to encourage him to seek therapy because there was only so much I could do, but he refused. The calls and texts would happen every so often.
One summer, I was interning in Chicago with plans to move there after graduating. This had been a goal of mine for quite some time, and he was aware of it. I got a text from him that summer telling me he would be in Chicago for a conference and we should catch up. He invited me out to a beer garden really late on a weekday and when he called me asking when I would get there, he was SUPER drunk. I decided not to go because it just felt strange and because I had my internship the next morning. After he left Chicago, he told me he really wanted to live there and wanted to try to get a job there.
A few weeks later, out of the blue, he texted me asking if I still had plans to move to Chicago after college. I did, and he said he wanted to move into an apartment with me. I thought it was so weird he would ask that, considering we still barely knew each other and considering our age gap... (again, he was a 35 year old man and I was a 21 year old woman at the time). I politely let him know that I already had plans to move into an apartment with a couple of my friends, but he was still family, and I would still love to see him/visit him if he moved to Chicago. I even offered to help apartment search with him and suggested websites and Facebook groups where he could find potential roommates. He responded to my text with a, "Ok I see how it is", and then I realized he blocked me on alls forms of social media INCLUDING my number. That was such strange behavior and to this day I still wonder about it. (BTW - still blocked on everything).
What do you guys think? Was he interested in me as, uh, ~more~ than a cousin?
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2022.01.26 03:03 SomeTotallyNormalGuy About Windows 10 file explorer
I have noticed that if I open file explorer with win + e shortcut file explorer launches instantly. So now im conscious about the speed when launching File Explorer on the taskbar. Is there any fix to this or this is just how slow file explorer opens when clicked on taskbar. BTW I have an rtx3060 gpu and an 11th gen intel chip.
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2022.01.26 03:03 DaddySan944 Buy a different vehicle or keep current one?
Basically my dad and me have a fleet, and he unfortunately ignored my multiple warnings about the 2011 grand caravan, basically the radio doesnt work, the ac doesnt work, the transmission needs replacement, and the engine needs replacing at 100k miles. They're charging him 3000 to replace the engine, and 1000 to replace the transmission 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️. And in this market I dont know if it's better to buy a different used sienna/ pickup or fix the caravan.
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. Any landlords/companies/buildings to avoid? What questions should i make sure to ask while I’m visiting apartments? What areas would you recommend? (I’m looking to live near campus- max 10 min walk)
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2022.01.26 03:03 Alliiiiceee What can I do with special projects associate experience?
I graduated with an economics degree last winter and just got a job as a special projects associate at a non charter school working under the CEO. If I want an advance in my career, what can higher paying job can I get with special projects associate experience other than project manager?
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2022.01.26 03:03 achshort If you want easier comprehensible input, try watching your favorite English movies on streaming websites like Netflix and Disney Plus in Japanese dub
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I’m just about to try some cereal, like raw cereal without anything else. Is it considered customary to eat cereal with your hands, or had anyone else done that?
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2022.01.26 03:03 Optimal-Pineapple-64 Reassurance (Was this SA?)
Using a throw away account but;
When I (F21) was 12 years old my 20 year old cousin (M29) coerced me into kissing him and giving him oral twice shortly after our grandma had passed away and we were staying at her house. In the moment I did not say no, but did hesitate the oral sex for a few minutes. After the incident I only told two of my friends about it, to which they both were really just like “cool.” 3 years later, when I was 15, it began to bother me and I did research which showed that what happened was rape. After I saw that I started to have panic attacks and nightmares of it happening again. Because I this, told my parents what happened and they told me it was disturbing and my dad did the generic dad thing of “if I ever see him…” My mom told my uncle what I said happened, and him and his wife said that my cousin said I was lying and to this day we don’t speak to them or any of my cousins on that side. The issue is, I don’t feel like I was raped, and it’s hard for me to use the word rape when I talk about it. When I was 12 I felt very mature for my age and I didn’t really mind what happened until I found out it was rape. Besides the internet, no one in my life has ever straight forward said to me “hey, that was rape” and even if they did I don’t think I’d believe them. If someone else told me what I’m typing right now I would 1000% say it wasn’t their fault and the cousin is just a pedophile, so why can’t I convince myself?
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2022.01.26 03:03 darbogas Dexcom: Inaccuracies? How to deal?
Hey. I wasn’t really sure how to address this. I am not a new Dexcom G6 user. I’ve been using it for close to a year now. However, the other morning, I noticed a glaring inaccuracy. I felt sick and weak. My Dexcom said my blood sugar was 75, but I tested with a manual device, and I found I was at a 45, which was much more consistent with how I felt. I changed the sensor yesterday, and I am having the same issue tonight (well over 24 hours since the start). It’s a relatively recent transmitter that I’m using, but I may have forgotten to clean the contacts this last time. Is that what this likely is? Or could it be a bad transmitter? I have not had these issues before that I know of, but I don’t always clean the transmitter contacts either.
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2022.01.26 03:03 MiserableAd3753 How can I help my friend with his mental health? (TW:mentions of attempted suicide)
Me and my friend are both minors lately he's been venting about his mental health problems I try my best to help him however i don't believe that Iam qualified enough for it given that I don't have the knowledge or capacity to help yesterday he told me about wanting to attempt suicide I panicked and called him thankfully i was able to prevent him from hurting himself
I've thought about informing his parents about this but I decided not to do so (his parents are not on good terms with him)
Iam terrified of losing my bestfriend it's gotten to the point where I get panick attacks from overthinking about it I really want to help him but I don't know what to do please help
(apologies for the lack of punctuations english is not my first language)
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